Must Love Drama Queen

I have certain kind of friends for whom people might think of them as drama queens. Without them, our lives are boring to death. But with them, you have to test your blood pressure constantly. They fall in love as if they have no other choices, they abuse their love as if they are not the person in charge, and they cry for their love afterwards as if this is the last time in love. After a while, the news comes out and they are in love again.

We can easily fall in love with a drama queen, why not? They are shining like crystal in the blue sky. They have the charisma to turn your life up and down. Many times, they are as beautiful as your dreams and you could communicate with them as you have dreamed. To love a drama queen likes to love a part of yourself—the young, abusive, ego-centric, selfish, arty, but shining part of yourself.

People believe drama queens are the lucky ones in love affairs. Not really. I think they are just the ones who will and can take the risks. On the verge of your nerve, are you daring to jump into an emotional turbulence? At the bottom heart of your mind, do you really think love is above everything? In the late night, can you afford the pain of betraying someone which you once loved and not regret? In retrospective, can you smile and still hold the hope for future? To be a drama queen, you have to be sure about yourself that nothing in your life is more adventurous and enjoyable than living the present moment.

I just wish you all can take it easy if you loved a drama queen. We have to love them, as a way to live out of our lives. Is there a better way to investigate the indepth of your emotion? To try out the different possibilites of yourself? To confront your moral disturbance?

Take it as the way it is, and enjoy this snow white Valentine’s day.